How to choose a bottle of wine when you don't know the words
Standing in front of a wall of bottles, or being asked by a shop assistant "what do you usually like?", can make anyone feel lost. You do not need to learn a tasting vocabulary to choose well. A handful of words, a few questions about the meal, and a willingness to say what you enjoy will get you a good bottle almost every time.
The four words that do most of the work
| Word | What it means in plain terms | How to ask for it |
|---|---|---|
| Dry / sweet | How much sugar is left in the wine. Most table wines are dry; "off-dry" means a touch of sweetness | "I like it dry" or "something a little sweet" |
| Body | How heavy the wine feels in your mouth: light like skimmed milk, full like cream | "Light and easy" or "rich and full" |
| Acidity | The fresh, mouth-watering quality, like a squeeze of lemon | "Crisp and fresh" or "soft and round" |
| Tannin (reds) | The drying, slightly gripping feeling on your gums, as with strong tea | "Smooth" or "with some grip" |
That is enough to describe nearly any wine. "A dry white, light and crisp" or "a smooth red, not too heavy" will give a good shop assistant everything they need.
Describe something you already liked
The easiest way to get a good recommendation is to name a wine you enjoyed, or just the grape, the country, or what the label looked like. Photograph labels you like so you can show them later. If you remember nothing about the bottle, describe the occasion: "we drank it with pizza on a summer evening and it was light and cold" is genuinely useful information.
It is also fine to say what you did not like. "Too oaky", "too sour" or "too heavy" helps narrow the choice as much as a positive description.
Matching wine to food, simply
Food and wine matching has a reputation for being complicated, but a few principles cover most meals:
- Match weight with weight. Light dishes (salads, fish, vegetables) suit lighter wines; rich dishes (stews, roasts, creamy pasta) suit fuller ones.
- Acidity loves fat and salt. Crisp wines cut through fried food, cheese and creamy sauces.
- Tannin likes protein and fat. Grippy reds are softened by meat and hard cheese, and taste harsh with spicy or delicate food.
- Spice and heat are easier with lower-alcohol, slightly off-dry or very fruity wines.
- Dessert wine should be at least as sweet as the dessert, or the wine will taste sour.
- Regional pairings are a safe bet: dishes and wines that grew up together usually suit each other.
Reading a label
Labels differ by country, but most tell you some of the following:
- The grape variety, common on wines from the Americas, Australia and New Zealand.
- The place, which is how many European wines are named; the region implies the grapes and style.
- The vintage, the year the grapes were picked. For everyday wines, a recent vintage is usually fresher.
- The alcohol by volume. Higher alcohol often goes with fuller body and riper fruit.
- The producer. Once you find one you like, their other wines are a good next step.
Budget: where the value is
Price is not a reliable guide to enjoyment. Some practical ways to get good value:
- Lesser-known regions and grapes often cost less than famous names for similar quality.
- Producers' entry-level wines from good regions can be better value than prestige labels from average ones.
- Independent shops will usually happily recommend something within a stated budget; say your number up front.
- Buying a mixed case of different bottles is a cheap way to discover what you like, and many shops offer a discount on it.
- Boxed and canned wines have improved and are practical for picnics and camping, where glass is heavy and breakable.
Bringing a bottle as a guest
Taking wine to someone who knows more about it can feel intimidating. It does not need to be. A bottle chosen with care and a sentence about why ("the shop said this goes well with roasted vegetables") is always welcome. The host is not obliged to open it that evening, and you should not expect them to; it is a gift. If you want it served with the meal, ask beforehand what they are cooking.
Serving it well
- Whites and rosés: chilled, but not ice-cold, which hides flavour. A couple of hours in the fridge, then out a few minutes before serving.
- Light reds can take a short time in the fridge, especially on warm days.
- Fuller reds: cool room temperature. A warm room makes them taste heavy and alcoholic.
- Sparkling wine: well chilled, opened slowly with the cork held under a cloth.
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Drinking sensibly
A standard drink in the United States contains about 14 grams of pure alcohol, which is roughly 5 fluid ounces of table wine at around 12% alcohol, according to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA, what is a standard drink). Generous home pours are often larger than that. Offer water alongside wine, plan how everyone gets home, and keep a good non-alcoholic option on the table for guests who are not drinking.
Checklist
At the shop
- Colour: red, white, rosé or sparkling
- Dry or a little sweet
- Light or full
- Crisp or soft; smooth or grippy
- What you are eating
- Your budget, said out loud
- A photo of the label if you like it
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